PRAIRIE VIEW, Texas (Dec. 5, 2023) – Sade S. Vega remembers her high school commencement ceremony as a joyous and solemn occasion. As she scanned the crowd and saw all the familiar faces smiling back and cheering her name, she couldn’t help but notice that one person was missing.
“My mother’s absence was deeply felt. I channeled that emotion into a resolute purpose, promising myself that she would see me graduate college.”
Graduating from Prairie View A&M University with a B.S. in Criminal Justice is more than an academic milestone; for Sade, it is her life’s purpose. As the first in her mother’s family to earn a higher education degree, Sade celebrates the accomplishment as an ode to the woman who made her.
Reaffirming the Vision in the Face of Adversity
In her mother’s absence, Sade was rendered homeless. She slept in alleys for three weeks until a friend of her mother took her in. From that day forward, Sade remained determined to transform her life into a product of success.
The next few years were a rollercoaster of highs and lows. There were days when a degree felt within reach; other times, the uncertainty and weight of life’s demands were almost too much to bear. She first attended San Diego City College, working her classes around her other commitments. Circumstances forced Sade to take a break, but the setback was temporary. She eventually enrolled in Lone Star College. When the time came to pause her studies for a second time, Sade decided to join the Navy.
“It’s a decision that redirected but did not diminish my educational goals,” said Sade. Sadly, her mother transitioned less than a year into her first overseas naval tour.
Undeterred, she resumed her classes at Lone Star College, this time with a renewed focus. Within 18 months, Sade earned her Associate of Arts. But there was still so much that she wanted to accomplish.
Sade discussed furthering her education with her grandmother. She learned that her grandfather, Jerry Stokes, attended Prairie View A&M in 1963 with aspirations of earning a teaching degree and becoming a coach. Unfortunately, being far from his hometown of Austin and without sufficient financial resources and support from his parents, he left his second semester and joined the Marine Corps. This revelation deeply resonated with Sade and solidified her decision. Not only did she have unfinished business, but it was her duty to fulfill her grandfather’s legacy. In the spring of 2021, Sade transferred to Prairie View A&M.
Forever Changed for the Better
“Prairie View A&M is not just the finest Historically Black College and University in Texas, but arguably in the entire nation. Comradery, community, culture and history define the PVAMU experience,” she said.
Sade holds the University in high regard. For her, the collective commitment to excellence and mutual support extends beyond traditional classroom interaction.
“Students gain more than knowledge; they take a quest of self-discovery that forges their destiny. Every assigned course reading and discussion offers a portal for infinite potential.”
Sade describes PVAMU as an epicenter of Black culture where passionate professors foster and nurture student growth and success, and every individual is committed to the well-being of others.
“The level of encouragement is unparalleled compared to any other educational institution I’ve attended.”
Fueled by the rich, vibrant and highly engaged environment, not even a nine-month deployment or being stationed miles away in Virginia Beach, Virginia, has derailed Sade.
She earned her degree online but still gained a sense of unity and bonded with her classmates and faculty. The San Diego native has come to call her mother’s birth state (Texas) and Prarie View home. She joined Alpha Pi Mu and the Beta Epilson Nu chapter of Alpha Phi Sigma, and the Alpha Kappa Mu Honor Society recognized her for induction.
“Without a doubt, that was my greatest achievement at PVAMU. It validated my unwavering diligence–a reflection and symbol of my hard work and countless sacrifices. I was honored.”
Sade embarks upon the next chapter, carrying a spirit of gratitude. She sends a heartfelt thank you to those who’ve helped her along the way, especially Professor and COJJ Interim Dean Camille Gibson, Ph.D., who introduced Sade to the International Association of Emergency Managers Conference.
“Representing PVAMU at the conference was enlightening. I networked and built relationships with other professionals in the field. The experience broadened my perspective and deepened my understanding of Emergency Management in ways I hadn’t anticipated.”
From advisors to administrative staff, Sade doesn’t believe she could’ve achieved her career and personal aspirations without her support system. “I encourage other students to connect with their peers and mentors. In these bonds lie strength and wisdom.”
The feedback from her professors, access to a wealth of resources and career-specific insights will undoubtedly be beneficial as Sade transitions into her future career.
Her Final Bow at Prairie View A&M
Sade’s academic journey is a story of resilience and perseverance. In the face of every obstacle, her persistence and the support of her family, friends, professors and naval colleagues helped Sade cross the finish line.
As she prepares to take her final walk at the upcoming graduation, she reflects on her journey and the woman who started it all. Sade knows she won’t be crossing the stage alone. Her mother always wanted to witness her children’s academic achievements firsthand, and Sade is sure her guardian angel will be with her at every step.
“To my peers in similar situations, remember that your victories and challenges are unique and invaluable. You’re only competing with yourself. No matter what happens, embrace each moment of your academic journey. Every struggle is a catalyst for growth and an opportunity to affirm your purpose. You’re creating a legacy. Let each day be an expedition into the depths of your brilliance and a testament to your unyielding spirit. Transcend!”
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By Whitney Stovall
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